Hi guys,
I came across this really interesting thing and I gave it a thought ,did some
research and complied it to be shared with everyone out there.
Like
most people, I like to present a facade of self-maintenance. Being nice to look
at is only part of the equation—and one that fades with time. There are
hundreds of things you can do to enhance your appearance and not just look hot,
but be hot.
1.
Do your homework. Take
a look at people you think are "hot," and note three to six things
that make them seem hot. It could be a physical feature (the eyes, the hair) or
it could be something they do (the way they walk). Are any of their little
tricks ones that you feel you could adapt and use too? If so, adopt them—they
will improve as you practice and become part of your style too.
2.
Grow into role.
Remember, the goal here is to be sexually attractive, and that takes some work.
Maintain your appearance, learn and maintain good posture, keep your clothes
free from "wardrobe malfunctions," (especially if you're on the risk
edge of dressing sexily).
· Being
considered hot doesn't mean just looking hot, it actually means you need
to be hot, and who you are and how you act has almost everything to do
with it! If you don't feel hot, there's an easy way around that: visualize your
own hotness.
· Carry
yourself the way hot people do. They don't slouch, or sit in the corner with
their arms crossed. They stand up straight. They make animated gestures with
their hands. They smile and laugh a lot. That all stems from one key ingredient
of hotness: confidence. There is nothing more attractive than confidence,
whether you're a man or a woman.
3.
Body
language – Look
confident and warm and make relaxed gestures instead of fast ones. People fall
in love with body language and a slow speed and tone of voice.
· Use some common scents Harness the power of
aromatherapy: To appear younger, wear a grapefruit scent. To appear thinner,
wear a spiced floral scent. These olfactory tricks can make people perceive you
as six years younger and 12 pounds slimmer.
· Smile! When you see someone you find
attractive, give them a big smile. It will make them find you appealing, too.
· Make eye contact Make eye contact. British
researchers found that if someone looks us straight in the eye, we find them
more attractive than people who avert their gaze.
4.
Groom yourself well. In
addition to fitness, looking like you just don't care about yourself is not
hot. Externally, that's obvious. Internally, if you don't care about your
appearance, it indicates that you don't have much in the way of self esteem or
confidence—traits that are not attractive in the short run, nor are they
attractive in the long run. What can you do?
Wax or
trim your eyebrows, and everything else that looks untidy. Get rid of that
unibrow, wax away the upper lip hair, pluck the chin hair, shave your legs, and
basically get rid of any hair you can stand to part with except the hair on
your head.
5.
Remember that tricks are temporary! If
you're good at pretending you're hot, congratulations. Eventually (even as soon
as the next morning), people will see you disheveled, with no makeup, and
sloppy clothes, the veneer stripped away. That's when your real self will be
naked and exposed. Don't get so caught up in looking hot that you forget to be
a decent person!
Trick
- Slick on some bright lipstick
Yes, I know you’ve read this tip everywhere, ever. That’s because it works! It wakes up your complexion and adds color to your face.
Yes, I know you’ve read this tip everywhere, ever. That’s because it works! It wakes up your complexion and adds color to your face.
Lastly- Don't be too shallow. Acting
like you're "all that" makes you hated and looked down upon. Don’t take “being good looking” too seriously.
If someone doesn’t like you for who you really are, they aren’t worth your time
or effort.
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